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Your Marriage – Is It Healthy?

Are there early warning signs?

All married couples remember standing at the altar and saying their beautiful marriage vows.

Each is certain at that moment that their marriage will be a success, full of joy and happiness. After all we marry a person we love and who loves us so much that they are willing to spend the rest of their lives with us. The reality – 50% get divorced and half of those who stay married are afraid to leave for various reasons.

What are the early warning signs that may signal trouble down the line?

Did you ever have any of these thoughts more than once?

· I don’t feel appreciated
· He or she isn’t the person I married
· The romance is gone
· I don’t feel understood
· Every conversation deteriorates into blaming each other
· He or she doesn’t listen
· He or she doesn’t want to communicate
· He or she is too bossy
· I don’t have a partnership
· His or her family is more important than I
· His or her friends are more important than I
· We don’t see eye to eye about spending/saving money
· His or her work is more important than I
· I am only here because of the children
· I am afraid to leave
· I am afraid leaving might be a mistake
· I don’t know how to get my marriage back on track
· All marriages are the same once the honeymoon is over
· I need to call my best friend,etc. to get things off my chest

Of course, there are a lot more negative thoughts that enter people’s minds when they are unhappy. These are just some examples.

Is this normal? No.

People who have good marriages don’t allow these feelings to go on without speaking about them in depth. That is why they are happily married.